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Dianne Glass posted a condolence

Sunday, January 20, 2013

YOU ARE MY SUNSHINE, MY ONLY SUNSHINE YOU MAKE ME HAPPY WHEN SKIES ARE GREY YOU'LL NEVER KNOW MUM HOW MUCH WE LOVE YOU PLEASE DON'T TAKE OUR SUNSHINE AWAY. Mum and I would sing on long car trips - heading to one craft show or another Mum and Dad would drive to Ontario for 6 weeks and help out. On a trip to Sudbury - after singing You Are my Sunshine off key as only the Murray family can do - mum started laughing and that got me laughing. I finally was able to gasp and say what we are laughing about . . . She said "I think you should sing at my Funeral . . . and at that we burst into laughter again. Mum is looking down on all of us knowing that right now we feel that our SUNSHINE has been taken away. But with the outpouring of funny, humorous and poignant stories from nieces, nephews, grandchildren and children we know that her SUNSHINE will always be with us. One day mum was admiring some craft I was doing, commented that I was so good at it and then she said "I don't think I am really good at anything!" I took her hands and said "yes - you are" . . . you have a very special gift and you are REALLY good at it. You have a way of making every person you are with feel special; you are able to read people's feeling and you know just when to say something funny to make some laugh. You also had the gift of being able laugh at your own expense. We have received emails all week from family and each one says "I always felt she was doing something special just for me". At some point, we were all given your DUMMY OF THE DAY AWARD and rather than being annoyed at ourselves over a silly mistake Edie taught all of us to laugh and give out the Dummy of The Day award to ourselves. Each time I came to visit Mum in Joseph Creek home I would remind her of my favourite story and every time we would laugh as if it just happened. Dad had taken mum shopping to Zellers and he would sit on a park bench while she shopped. Mum loved to talk and would tell her life story to anyone. In Zellers a man, thinking mum worked there, asked where the lamps were. Mum started chatting and said she would show him so the talked and walked and she directed him and talked his ear off! Finally, she thought she better hurry and pay as Dad would be waiting. She got in the long lineup, chatting to people on either side of her until it was her turn at the cash. The cashier knew her and said "Hi Edie, what are we buying today?" Even as I write this I am laughing . . . she looked around and started laughing as she realized she hadn't bought ANYTHING!! She was so used to running in for wool or whatever that she just automatically got into line. The cashier, mum and others in line were killing themselves laughing and the best part of it was she said: "Don't tell Don" and then she would be the first to tell him; all the while laughing and giving herself The Dummy of the Day Award. The family is going to donate a picnic bench with a plaque in Edie's Memory; we are hoping to put it in the garden of Joseph Creek home where she spent her last few years making others laugh. We hope people will sit down and enjoy the SUNSHINE. Please take time to "smell the flowers", enjoy the Sunshine and think happy thoughts of Edie.

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Laurie Danis (Frick) posted a condolence

Friday, January 18, 2013

....I worked with her at Finning Tractor over 40 years ago ...I am sad at her passing....

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Kathryn Shannon posted a condolence

Thursday, December 6, 2012

I worked at Joseph Creek care home where I met Edie. She was such a sweet lady and always brought a smile to my face. She will be missed. Kathryn Shannon

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Dianne Glass posted a condolence

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

From Edie's nephew Richard and wife Luanne Hi Dianne, Ed, Al & family: We are sad to lose such a 'great' Aunt and wonderful person but happy she can be with her sweetheart once again. I'll never forget my few days with them just before your Dad died and she made a birthday cake 'her specialty' and forgot to add the cake mix, it baked to all of a half inch in the pan and when I found the full cake mix box unopened on the kitchen table the 3 of us laughed til we cried! I just hope Heaven is ready for her keen and wonderful sense of humor! She was and always will be the best. I know my Mom and Dad will welcome her with open arms as well! Love as always, Rich & Lu

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Dianne Glass posted a condolence

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

Good friends of Dianne & Andy - Gerri and Mark Pinvidic Oh Dianne. I am so very sorry. It is such a loss as I now know. I feel the same way that you do that we don't want out loved ones to suffer but it is oh so hard to let go. My heart goes out to you,Andy and your family. Please know I'm here if you need to talk. Love you! Gerri

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Dianne Glass posted a condolence

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

From Dianne's High school buddy, Pat Booth Hi Dianne, I am so sorry to hear of your mom's passing; it sounds like she had a wonderful life and a loving family. Your son's letter was delightful and moving…how wonderful for them both to have had such a close relationships. Wishing you and your family all the best, Pat

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Dianne Glass posted a condolence

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

from Dianne's High school buddy Sooz (Klinkhamer) Hi Dianne: Please accept my deepest condolences on the death of your mum. I think that losing Mum's is the most difficult of all those in our lives that we eventually lose to the natural cycle of life. My own Ma has been gone now for 14 years......and I think about her nearly every day. What a tremendous influence they have on our lives. In time, I know the pain of loss will subside, and you will be left with just the wonderful golden memories. And yes, it is some comfort to know that mum and dad are together again. (My Dad passed away 9 months to the day after Mum went.......he just didn't want to be without her any longer.....56 years of marriage will do that to you!) Take care, and with sympathy..... Sooz

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Dianne Glass posted a condolence

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

From Dianne and Andy's daughter, Laurie (Edie's granddaughter), husband Dave, great granddaughters - Olivia and CiaraJane Sauve Dear Nana Some of my funniest memories of Nana are politically incorrect so I won't repeat them but I loved Nana's sense of humour and ability to tell a story. We re-lived those stories last weekend (my Dave, Steph, Michelle, Scott, Dave and Christine); so I won't repeat them here, but Nana and I will always remember. We all had lots of shared memories and laughter over those jokes that Nana told and shocked us with. I also always remember Nana's Christmas baking - in particular her whipped Shortbread. I makes Nana's "whipped Shortbread" every year, and every year it has been a tradition to call Nana while I am baking and ask why they aren't firming up, I have been whipping and whipping and Nana always says - when you think you are done - whip them more! I thank you for my love of baking and cooking! I think I make some mean yorkshire puddings thanks you you!! Today, I baked a huge tray of shortbread for mum to take to the family in Cranbrook so they can still have Nana's Whipped Shortbread this Christmas. You played hopscotch with me when I was 3 and mum was in the hospital having David; you played playdough, painting and shared your love of baking. I have wonderful memories of when I was young and you 'visited us' (never babysat). You and papa were so proud of my when I finished Seneca College and became a Flight Attendant in the Middle East. I treasure a wonderful picture of both of you with me in uniform on a home visit. We always kept in touch by postcards and emails and always ended with our traditional "Isle of View" xoxooxxo After you stopped travelling to Toronto I were so happy that I was able to come to Cranbrook with my husband, Dave and visited Cranbrook with you and Papa. We came with Olivia as a baby and she got to meet Papa and you; and again with Olivia at 3 ½ and CiaraJane as a baby. I have wonderful pictures and memories of those visits of them meeting their great grandparents (Olivia and you peeling all the cobs of corn and her putting lipstick on you). Remember, every you letter you ever sent to me ended with the big row of hugs and kisses and you always ending your letter with: ISLE OF VIEW Nana All my Love forever, Laurie

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Dianne Glass posted a condolence

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

From Dianne's high School buddy - Brenda Smith Hi Dianne, I'm sorry to hear of your Mum's death … you are right… you are now orphans! Even though it sounds odd, there's a big reality hit with now being the 'oldest' generation …My Mum died in 2001 and there are times still that I wish I could just pick up the phone and talk to her about something … I have trouble believing that I am now the 'responsible' person … OMG .. .how did that happen - in many ways, I still feel like a teenager, ( or at least a 40 year old) … My thoughts and condolences are with you! Love from Brenda

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Dianne Glass posted a condolence

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

From Edie's niece Nancy and husand Greg Rayson To all our Dear Family, A very sad email to receive. Greg & I are very happy that our favorite Aunt is resting peacefully and in Uncle Don's loving arms. :-) We have so many wonderful memories which all bring a big smile to our face and a warm tug to our heart. Love to all. Nancy & Greg

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Dianne Glass posted a condolence

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

From Dianne and Andy's good friends: Blain and Kathleen We are thinking of both you especially through the next couple of days. Losing a parent is never easy but knowing that your Mom and Dad are now together will give you some comfort in the days ahead. Blain and Kathleen

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Dianne Glass posted a condolence

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

From Dianne's high school buddy - Jackie Cavelle DEAR DIANNE , I JUST OPENED MY E-MAILS AND OH WHAT A SHOCK , LIKE YOU SAY YOU THINK YOU ARE PREPARED AND KNOW SOMEDAY IT WILL HAPPEN , BUT I AM SO GLAD SHE DIDN'T STRUGGLE , SHE JUST LET GO . I WISH I WAS THERE TO FIX HER HAIR AND PUT HER LIPSTICK ON FOR THE LAST TIME . SHE WAS ALWAYS SO PLEASED TO RECEIVE MANY COMPLIMENTS AFTER HER " DOO" DAY AND MAKE -UP . I WILL TRULY MISS HER , THE LAUGHS WE SHARED , IT WAS MY FEEL GOOD DAY COMING FROM VISITING HER . I ALSO WISH I WAS THERE FOR YOU DIANNE , MY SYMPATHIES AND BIG HUGS ARE SENT TO ALL OF YOU , JACKIE

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Dianne Glass posted a condolence

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

From John and Vivian Rayson's Daughter,Dagne Rayson(Edie's niece) Hello everyone, I was so saddened to hear about Auntie Edie but I do know she is in a better place with Uncle Don, Uncle Norm, Auntie Nan and am sure she has found her way to the younger generation and making home made fries for Mark! I am sure she has found Luc as well and they are sharing stories. I have so many fond memories of Auntie Edie - she was the best great aunt anyone could ask for. We used to look forward to the days that Mom and Dad would go away and Autie Edie and Uncle Don would come over and make the best fries, let us stay up late and best of all let us watch Dallas on TV! Christmas Eve's were the best at their house, lots of yummy food and lots of laughs. I also remember going there at Halloween and she always had pomegrants for us! I still miss those nights. There were many times I also would pop in for a quick visit on my way through town after I moved away. Auntie Edie always had a homemade treat available for munching. She always had the twinkle. In her eye and made you feel special I will miss Auntie Edie and will be thinking of you all. Lots of love Dagne

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Dianne Glass posted a condolence

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

From Sean, Teesa and Tyler Glass (Sean is Andy and Dianne's son); grandson to Edie and Tyler is Nana's great grandson Hi Dianne, Moxie: Chops, savvy; courage strength, work ethic, energy, determination, and mental sharpness combined; Expertise, experience; The ability to face difficulty with spirit and courage This is one word that instantly springs to mind and best sums up Edie when I think of your Mum. But not the only words just the first one. Others include warm, caring, unconditional, heart and home. Matriarch, the boss, hard working, work ethic; Fun, funny, laughing, buddy, story teller. Your Mom was such a character and I'm so glad that you sent that picture of her and I along as it really sums up Edie and how she occurs/occurred for me. She was always so welcoming to me and had such a warm way about her despite an exterior that gave off a different persona that you may not want to mess with me as you might get the horns. She was constantly laughing and telling stories and you couldn't help but laugh along with her regardless of what she was saying because her laugh was infectious. And the stories always had me spellbound partly due to the content and material but mostly from the delivery. Similar to what Tracey was sharing from the e-mail that Edie had sent her: "I better get my butt in gear as kitchen floor is hollering to be scrubbed and also the lawn needs mowing and it is only 1 week ago that al & Marsha were here and al mowed it but with all the rain we have had you can almost see the darned lawn growing." I think it is very ironic that we have all now turned into the story tellers about Edie where during her life, she was the one who kept the history of the family alive in the stories she would tell. I used the word buddy above because she felt that way to me and she always made a point of making me feel so welcome and included even when she was visiting our home which I was already welcome at. She did this despite whatever issues were going on between you and I at the time and I really respected her for that, now I reflect on it and it makes me feel good. I was always excited to see her when she and Don would come to stay and I always marveled at her tireless energy and work ethic. This leads into the story of your Mom and Dad and I believe you really can't talk about one without the other. They were such an inseparable pair until that was no longer up to them and it is now that they are together that helps bring us all some closure in a way that makes us feel better. Tracey's story about going to the beach and your Mom carrying all the pyramid of beach blankets, towels, coolers and chairs while Don carried his cigarettes complaining why it was taking her so long and get a move on, really typifies this relationship and a glimpse into just how great your Mom was. They always kept us all hanging with laughter with their back and forth and their way with one another, it was true love at its raw best. It has been quite a journey down memory lane, I suspect it may surprise you that I have so much to say on the subject of your Mom but in the short time I have known her and the long spaces in between when we would see her, she left this impression with me and I really do think we can all take a page or two (likely more...) out of her book on how to live our lives and how to be with one another and that family is the most important thing we have. I hope that through all the story telling this weekend will bring Edie to life once again for but a brief time so that all the family can breathe her in one last time before we say good bye that one last time... Until we meet again! Love to you and all the family, especially the grandchildren and great grandchildren, All my very best wishes, sympathies and warm regards, Sean

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Dianne Glass posted a condolence

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

From Edie's granddaughter, and daugher to her son Ed Murray. Dear Nana: Thinking back on memories of Nana (and Papa) is no small task. Rob and I were lucky enough to live in the same town as them our entire lives, and we were lucky enough to have parents who liked going on holidays and to dinner parties and would leave Nana and Papa to "visit" us. They never babysat, only "visited". Nana was such a great grandparent to me. I don't think she ever missed a piano recital or Christmas concert, and she never missed an opportunity to clap her hands or sing along. After I was finished performing, her and Papa were always there to tell me how proud they were, and if I was lucky, take me for ice cream. When I was in elementary school, my class was performing line dancing at the Cranbrook Mall for Sam Steele Days, and Nana had promised she'd walk down and watch. She loved country music. Unfortunately there was too much "hurry, hurry Nana Murray" in her step 'cause she tripped on a raised sidewalk and broke her shoulder. Poor Nana, just trying to be there for her granddaughter. Whenever Nana and Papa would pick Rob and I up after school in the burgundy Buick it was strictly boys in the front, ladies in the back. Her shoulder never quite healed back up properly, so I would always have to help her with her seatbelt - this coming from a lady who didn't ever ask for much help, especially if it wasn't accompanied by a sarcastic dig. Nana's house was always so comfortable and cosy. It was never spotless, but it was home. There was always fresh baking, and lunch or dinner on the stove. My favourite meals were sitting in the living room with Pop watching talk shows, and Nana would bring us cheese and bacon snacks (done in the over on white bread) and milk for lunch. The jar of olives was always nearby, 'cause any time I looked away, Papa would make it snow more olives onto my plate. The very best memories I have of Nana is her singing to us before bed. By no means were these lullabies, and none of them were in tune, but she'd come sit on the edge of my bed and sing a handful of songs before sleep any time she was visiting. A few favourites included You Are My Sunshine, Daisy Daisy, Ain't Got a Barrel of Money, Long Way to Tipperary, I Belong to Glasgow, Found a Peanut, and Show Me the Way to Go Home. I was singing these in my head the other night before bed, and I can vividly hear Nana's voice leading our sing-song. I was just reading over emails that I received from Nana while I was in Australia in 2004. Most of them include a play-by-play of the most recent Kootenay Ice came (so Dad comes by it honestly), a reminder of how much she's been enjoying the articles I'd been writing for the paper, and what chores she has left for the day. One particular chore was to get her butt in gear and go down to Murray's Office Stop and photocopy my articles for those who don't have computers like Auntie Dibby, the two old maid sisters in Winnipeg, and Auntie Madge. She then goes on to say (typing in all capitals at this point) her apologies for the BIG LETTERS and the bad spelling. Apparently Dad had just got "this machine repaired" but hasn't brought her the bill yet. If she knew where he got it fixed, she'd be calling to find out where the spell check went. Every single email is signed with almost a whole line's worth of XOXOXOs and bundles of love from Papa and Nana. Trust me Nana, I always felt so much love from you. One last sing-song that seems fitting at this time. I wish I could be there to sing it for you Nana. Smile a while, we bid you sad adieu, When the clouds roll by we'll come to you, So wait and pray each night for me, Until we meet again. Oh, and if anyone can pass this message on to heaven - if you know what's good for ya, Nana only likes her drinks with a straw and no ice. Stephanie Murray November 2012

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Dianne Glass posted a condolence

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

Cousin Jim from England: Dear Dianne, Ed, Al, & Familes, So sorry to hear of your Mam's passing. Thank you for the Link so I could read the full Obituary, which was very moving. Also to see the Family names and photos. This is the amazing thing in this day and age that distances are no problem, and you can share your loss with me. Thank you. Love from across the Pond Yours Sincerely, Cousin Jim Boothman

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Dianne Glass posted a condolence

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

From Tracy Rayson (daughter of Norman Rayson - Edie's youngest brother. Dear Ed, Al, Dianne and family, Oh gosh, I'm so sad...I know we all knew after Edie's latest health update, she was not long for this earth, but no heart can ever be prepared. I opened Dianne's email last night and read the news we all feared would come too soon. Like everyone, I'm certain Edie is with Don now, giving him that long awaited hug, and of course, yuckin' it up with Norm and Nan, embracing them with the love we all feel in our hearts. I'm sure Norm had a beer waiting with Edie's name on it. Norm would say something corny like, "Got a cold one here for ya Edie, it tastes heavenly." Wow, I have to share this moment…this is very odd, but wonderfully odd. I'm watching out my home office window right now as I type this. There is a senior couple, looks to be in their late 70s, walking towards my apartment, holding hands, eating ice cream cones. Ice cream cones? It's November! More surprising, they look a lot like Don and Edie when they were in their 70s. Same physical builds, heights, proportions, both are wearing glasses, the man's bald, etc. They continue their walk up the apartment complex driveway. Why ice cream cones? It's too cold here to be eating ice cream outdoors. How odd. I admit it; the quirky nature of this sighting is not lost on me. It's too strange not to give it some reflection. I have to believe it's a sign from Norm — they are all together now. Ice cream was Norm's favourite treat. That's a pretty strong happenstance. It makes me smile in the midst of my grief. I think that moment was presented purposely, not a coincidence at all…at least that is what I am open to believe. Hum, maybe not so odd after all. Anyways…my memory I want to share of Edie. I have so many fond memories of Edie, family reunions, family holidays, special events, etc. Surely everyone will have their own story and special place in their heart for Edie's kitchen! Always open, always good home cooking. Speedie Edie's Grill, you could always count on eating/drinking at all hours of the day/night, and of course, the menu changed as we got older. "Girls, do you want a cookie? Girls, do you want a sandwich? Girls, do you want a beer?" Everything served with love. And of course, food was often consumed under a haze of blue/grey smoke that hung over the kitchen table like a heavy curtain, especially if the family was sitting around, drinking beer, playing cards, and/or rolling cigarettes. There was always lots of laughter; always lots of smoke. I can still visualize those empty tubes on the counter and the tin of tobacco. Just as David did, and I'm sure like countless others, Nancy and me helped roll hundred's of 'em. However, of all the memories over the years, Nancy and I have a favourite that we laugh about to this day. During the summer of '76, we stayed with Auntie Edie and Uncle Don during our move from Ontario to BC, Nancy was going into grade 10, me into 8; Nan and Norm were house hunting on the Coast. One particularly hot afternoon, Edie and Don took us to the lake/beach. You would have thought we were going camping with the load we packed: cooler, chairs, blankets, towels, umbrella, magazines, "transistor radio" (it was the '70s after all)…the amount of "stuff" was endless. We got out of the car, Nanc and I were carrying our towels, maybe a bag or two, and started towards the beach a few feet in front of Edie and Don. We got further in front of them when we heard Don tell Edie to hurry up. We stopped and turned to see Uncle Don with a newspaper tucked under his arm, carrying his cigarettes. Edie looked like a pyramid! Everything was stacked atop the cooler she was carrying: the blankets, the radio, Don's towel, magazines, balancing everything we packed for our outing. The lawn chairs were tucked under her arm, towel over one shoulder, purse over her wrist. Edie was a human pack mule! Uncle Don was telling her to "get a move on" and you just know she was saying something in true Edie fashion like: "For Christ sakes, Don!" Oh my God, I think we came

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Dianne Glass posted a condolence

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

From great friends - Derek and Ilze Dear Dianne, I am so sorry to hear the news, but you seem at peace with what has happened, as is your mom. Her candle may have stopped burning but the glow that she cast will always be there. Ilze and Derek

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Dianne Glass posted a condolence

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

From Jason (son of Andy and Dianne Glass), wife Julie, grandchildren Emily and Jamie: We are all very sad to hear of Edie's passing. Our thoughts are with Dianne, Ed, Al and their families at this difficult time. Edie was quite the character, always had a smile and a story for everyone and I do remember a few phone conversations where she talked my ear off - in a good way though! Both Don and Edie attended our wedding 15 years ago and offered us some very sound advice for our lives ahead - "Never go to bed mad" is one thing that has stuck with us and when that comes from a couple married for 61 years, you listen and execute! Since the year we married until only a few years ago, Edie always sent me a Scottish calender for Christmas - being Scottish, this was always such a special and thoughtful treat and was always put to use, along with the festive tea towels that still make an appearance over the festive season in our household! It is comforting to know that Edie has left this world to join her soul mate Don and is looking down upon us with a smile and a chuckle. She was not in pain and passed peacefully. It was her time to go and her legend lives on in all those who shared in her life. Sending all our love.... Jason, Julie, Emily & Jamie xxxx

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Dianne Glass posted a condolence

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

From close friends of Dianne and Andy: We are so sad to hear of your Mom's passing. She was a great lady - so much fun to be with. Dianne - she would have been so proud of you on Saturday - facing your fears - she would also have thought you were a little crazy as well!!! You are right - even though you have some forewarning - you are never really prepared. When Terry lost his Mom he said he felt like an orphan. The loss is tremendous. You and Andy made the time you spent with your mother special. It is amazing and I am sure comforting that she never forgot you which is sometimes the case with dementia. I just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and if there is anything we can do please do not hesitate to call. Marg and Terry

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Dianne Glass posted a condolence

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

From Grant and Darlene Rayson (Grant is the younger son of John and Vivian Rayson) Dar and I will miss Edie. Dar had a few visits with her on our trip down there a few years ago and and they formed a bond quickly. This was not hard to do as Edie was a likeable person as soon you met her. I will miss her cheerful voice and we are so grateful we reconnected in these last few years. We are sad and send our condolences, but we are grateful she is at peace and the end was merciful and painless. She will be with Don now and that was her wish. I will always remember her from Cranbrook days when I did get a chance to visit there. She had the greatest garden! In the North we missed a lot of the fresh garden fare such as your Mom grew. I will never forget the broccoli, it was so green and she steamed it to perfection. Could never get enough. And her chatter, her cheerful chatter that went on and on. Edie was a fountain of cheerfulness but at the same time one always knew where she stood on matters and where you fit in the picture. Dar and I send our deepest condolences to you and all the family at this time. We are hoping to make trip East next year as we have relatives out that way in several places. Dianne, it would be great to see you and have some time to talk. For now, we wish you all the best. Regards and Love Grant and Darlene

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Dianne Glass posted a condolence

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

Murray Pearson is Madge Pearson's son, a nephew of DonMurray (Don had 3 sisters - Madge, Ina and Jessie) We are so very sad to hear of Edie's passing. It is a blessing that she passed quickly and without too much suffering and I know that she will be pleased to be re-united with her beloved Don. Please know that Erin and I are thinking of you all and have you in our prayers at this most difficult of times. Murray & Erin

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Dianne Glass posted a condolence

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

From Ralph and Sue: Dad's sister, Ina had 3 kids - Ralph is the oldest and one of Aunty Edie\s newphews: Ed & Andi, Dianne & Andy and Al & Marsha, We received the news last night via email from Dianne & Andy regarding Edie's passing. Just know that our prayers are with all of you. Sue and I always smile whenever we think of Edie. When Sue was pregnant with Aimee she had started knitting a sweater. Don & Edie were down here visiting and Sue ran into trouble on the sweater. Edie had just bought a new knitting machine of some kind and offered to take the partially completed sweater and yarn home with her to finish it. Needless to say, Sue is still waiting for that sweater :-) She kidded Edie about that every time we talked to her after that. It became one of our family jokes and we still laugh about it today every time we think of your Mom. Edie was quite the "character", always laughing and cutting up, and all of us thoroughly enjoyed the times we spent together. I spoke with Mom this morning to give her the news, and also informed Dave, Donna & Maureen (who is visiting with them right now). Edie will always put a big smile on our faces whenever we think of her. Love to you all, Ralph & Sue

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Dianne Glass posted a condolence

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

From Michelle Rayson (daughter of John and Vivian Rayson) Hi Dianne, Ed and Al, It makes me sad to think of Auntie Edie passing away & no longer here with us, however, I'm happy knowing she likely did not suffer much and is now with Uncle Don (where she has wanted to be since he left us). She can now join the crew up there keeping tabs on all of us & whip them into shape: Uncle Don, Clint, Mark, Auntie Pat (Keeler), and Luc. They will be thrilled to have Auntie Edie join the party - in fact, it will be her who gets it started!!! I hope she knew how much we all loved & adored her, even though time & distance separated us. She was very special to me, and provided a lot of love, support, laughter, & great memories as I was growing up.... Thanks to her, I have the following: good eyesight from eating carrots/beets/beans, the ability to "sleep fast", and a strong affinity for homemade doughnuts & french fries!!! I will always think of Auntie Edie & Uncle Don as my un-official grandparents, and it's a sad day when you lose your Grandma... Thinking of all of you this week, & I wish I could join you for her service in Cranbrook. However, I will be there in spirit, & will do some Christmas baking in her honour instead.... :) Much love, Michelle xoxo

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Dianne Glass posted a condolence

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

From John and Vivian Rayson (John is the son John and Irene Rayson - John was Edie's oldest brother. We arrived back in Vancouver yesterday afternoon to learn of the marked change in Edie and then via Michelle's email this am learned that she had passed away. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. How do we describe "Auntie Edie" and her meaning to the rest of us. I have so many memories of Edie that it is hard to put all in words. As Michelle said, she and Don were the "unofficial grandparents" to our children but in many respects were their real grandparents. I recall telling Edie when Michelle was due that she was about to become a great aunt. Her response as one might expect: "I have always been a Great Aunt." What could more sum up the qualities of this remarkable woman that we had the privilege to know and be a part of her family. The help we received on arriving in Cranbrook and the many subsequent family gatherings that were so vital to our family: Christmas Eve at Edie's, dinner at the Raysons on Christmas Day and Boxing Day at Keelers: the Kids last stop on Halloween. So many years went by so quickly. Speedie Edie's late night grill and the ability to sleep fast [at 100 kmh not 60 mph] are only a small part of the lore of the family. Who but Edie could have put together those remarkable family reunions. We will mourn Edie's passing but remember all the good times, humour and care. We are glad that she didn't suffer and is now at rest with Don and as Michelle stated will keep all in line watching over the rest of us. Keep us posted. Love John and Vivian John and Vivian - 23 hours ago

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Dianne Glass posted a condolence

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

To Nana from Dave (Newns) - grandson and son to Dianne and Andy Glass Although Nana just passed away I have missed her for years. Being the other side of the country away from her, I've always wished I could see her more often! I remember her always laughing, and being one of the funniest and sarcastic people I know! (even if at the time I didn't think so!) I remember vividly as a child always whining like all kids do, "I'm thirsty!" I'm hungry!" "I'm bored!" to which I would always get the same retort, "No you're not, you're Dave! Stop yer whinin'!" It was classic Nana! (Again, not funny for a 8 year old at the time, but hilarious to me as I got older!) I remember playing UNO! I remember getting Happy Birthday sung to me every year over the phone! I remember "attaboys" and still use them to this day! I remember thinking for years that my Nana was off "sailing" around the world with her friend on Sundays and why she never brought my Papa! Could a jigsaw puzzle really be that important to you Papa that you don't want to go sailing with Nana?! Then I found out she was garage "saling" around Cranbrook with her friend and I understood why Papa didn't go! One of my fondest memories with Nana and Papa, and would probably be frowned upon today, was the cigarette rolling sweatshop they would always have me do whenever I saw them! (Or whenever I was "bored!") I would roll hundreds for them! But I loved doing it for them and I loved spending that time with them! Gotta a few attaboys out of it too! As sad as it is that my Nana is no longer on earth making people laugh, I have no doubt she's back together with Papa making everyone else laugh! I'm glad she went peacefully and didn't suffer! As I recall all these memories with tears welling up in my eyes, I can hear her now as I say "I'm sad!" "No you're not! You're Dave! Stop yer cryin'!" Attagirl Nana! Attagirl! Dave Newns - 23 hours ago

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Dianne Glass posted a condolence

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

From Edie's niece Nancy and husand Greg Rayson To all our Dear Family, A very sad email to receive. Greg & I are very happy that our favorite Aunt is resting peacefully and in Uncle Don's loving arms. :-) We have so many wonderful memories which all bring a big smile to our face and a warm tug to our heart. Love to all. Nancy & Greg

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Dianne Glass posted a condolence

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

To Andy and Dianne: We are thinking of both you especially through the next couple of days. Losing a parent is never easy but knowing that your Mom and Dad are now together will give you some comfort in the days ahead. Blain and Kathleen

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Dianne Glass posted a condolence

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

From Edie's nephew Richard and wife Luanne Hi Dianne, Ed, Al & family: We are sad to lose such a 'great' Aunt and wonderful person but happy she can be with her sweetheart once again. I'll never forget my few days with them just before your Dad died and she made a birthday cake 'her specialty' and forgot to add the cake mix, it baked to all of a half inch in the pan and when I found the full cake mix box unopened on the kitchen table the 3 of us laughed til we cried! I just hope Heaven is ready for her keen and wonderful sense of humor! She was and always will be the best. I know my Mom and Dad will welcome her with open arms as well! Love as always, Rich & Lu

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Dianne Glass posted a condolence

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Oh Dianne. I am so very sorry. It is such a loss as I now know. I feel the same way that you do that we don't want out loved ones to suffer but it is oh so hard to let go. My heart goes out to you,Andy and your family. Please know I'm here if you need to talk. Love you! Gerri

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Dianne Glass posted a condolence

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

From school buddy Pat Hi Dianne, I am so sorry to hear of your mom's passing; it sounds like she had a wonderful life and a loving family. Your son's letter was delightful and moving…how wonderful for them both to have had such a close relationships. Wishing you and your family all the best, Pat

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Laurie posted a condolence

Monday, December 3, 2012

From school buddy Sooz Hi Dianne: Please accept my deepest condolences on the death of your mum. I think that losing Mum's is the most difficult of all those in our lives that we eventually lose to the natural cycle of life. My own Ma has been gone now for 14 years......and I think about her nearly every day. What a tremendous influence they have on our lives. In time, I know the pain of loss will subside, and you will be left with just the wonderful golden memories. And yes, it is some comfort to know that mum and dad are together again. (My Dad passed away 9 months to the day after Mum went.......he just didn't want to be without her any longer.....56 years of marriage will do that to you!) Take care, and with sympathy..... Sooz

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Laurie posted a condolence

Monday, December 3, 2012

From Dianne and Andy's daughter, Laurie (Edie's granddaughter), Dave, Olivia and CiaraJane Sauve (great granddaughters) Dear Nana Some of my funniest memories of Nana are politically incorrect ? so I won't repeat them here, but she and I will always remember. I also always remember Nana's Christmas baking - in particular her whipped Shortbread. I makes Nana's "whipped Shortbread" every year, and every year it has been a tradition to call Nana while I am baking and ask why they aren't firming up, I have been whipping and whipping and Nana always says - when you think you are done - whip them more! Today, I baked a huge tray of shortbread for mum to take to the family in Cranbrook so they can still have Nana's Whipped Shortbread this Christmas. You played hopscotch with me when I was 3 and mum was in the hospital having David; you played playdough, painting and shared your love of baking. I were so happy that I visited Cranbrook with Olivia as a baby and she got to meet Papa and you; and again with Olivia at 3 ½ and CiaraJane as a baby. I have wonderful pictures and memories of those visits of them meeting their great grandparents (Olivia and you peeling all the cobs of corn and her putting lipstick on you). Remember, every you letter you ever sent to me ended with the big row of hugs and kisses and Always ending your letter with: ISLE OF VIEW Nana Love Laurie

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Brenda posted a condolence

Monday, December 3, 2012

From my school buddy Brenda Hi Dianne, I'm sorry to hear of your Mum's death … you are right… you are now orphans! Even though it sounds odd, there's a big reality hit with now being the 'oldest' generation …My Mum died in 2001 and there are times still that I wish I could just pick up the phone and talk to her about something … I have trouble believing that I am now the 'responsible' person … OMG .. .how did that happen - in many ways, I still feel like a teenager, ( or at least a 40 year old) … My thoughts and condolences are with you! Love from Brenda

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Jackie posted a condolence

Monday, December 3, 2012

From my school buddy - Jackie DEAR DIANNE , I JUST OPENED MY E-MAILS AND OH WHAT A SHOCK , LIKE YOU SAY YOU THINK YOU ARE PREPARED AND KNOW SOMEDAY IT WILL HAPPEN , BUT I AM SO GLAD SHE DIDN'T STRUGGLE , SHE JUST LET GO . I WISH I WAS THERE TO FIX HER HAIR AND PUT HER LIPSTICK ON FOR THE LAST TIME . SHE WAS ALWAYS SO PLEASED TO RECEIVE MANY COMPLIMENTS AFTER HER " DOO" DAY AND MAKE -UP . I WILL TRULY MISS HER , THE LAUGHS WE SHARED , IT WAS MY FEEL GOOD DAY COMING FROM VISITING HER . I ALSO WISH I WAS THERE FOR YOU DIANNE , MY SYMPATHIES AND BIG HUGS ARE SENT TO ALL OF YOU , JACKIE

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Dianne posted a condolence

Monday, December 3, 2012

That last one is from Dagne Rayson (this doesn't let me go back and correct) Dianne.

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Sean, Teesa and Tyler Glass posted a condolence

Monday, December 3, 2012

From Dagne and Kaitlyn Rayson (Dagne is John and Vivian's daughter, and niece to Aunty Edie) Hello everyone, I was so saddened to hear about Auntie Edie but I do know she is in a better place with Uncle Don, Uncle Norm, Auntie Nan and am sure she has found her way to the younger generation and making home made fries for Mark! I am sure she has found Luc as well and they are sharing stories. I have so many fond memories of Auntie Edie - she was the best great aunt anyone could ask for. We used to look forward to the days that Mom and Dad would go away and Autie Edie and Uncle Don would come over and make the best fries, let us stay up late and best of all let us watch Dallas on TV! Christmas Eve's were the best at their house, lots of yummy food and lots of laughs. I also remember going there at Halloween and she always had pomegrants for us! I still miss those nights. There were many times I also would pop in for a quick visit on my way through town after I moved away. Auntie Edie always had a homemade treat available for munching. She always had the twinkle. In her eye and made you feel special I will miss Auntie Edie and will be thinking of you all. Lots of love Dagne

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Sean, Teesa and Tyler Glass posted a condolence

Monday, December 3, 2012

From Sean, Teesa and Tyler Glass (Sean is Andy and Dianne's son) and Tyler is Nana's great grandson Hi Dianne, Moxie: Chops, savvy; courage strength, work ethic, energy, determination, and mental sharpness combined; Expertise, experience; The ability to face difficulty with spirit and courage This is one word that instantly springs to mind and best sums up Edie when I think of your Mum. But not the only words just the first one. Others include warm, caring, unconditional, heart and home. Matriarch, the boss, hard working, work ethic; Fun, funny, laughing, buddy, story teller. Your Mom was such a character and I'm so glad that you sent that picture of her and I along as it really sums up Edie and how she occurs/occurred for me. She was always so welcoming to me and had such a warm way about her despite an exterior that gave off a different persona that you may not want to mess with me as you might get the horns. She was constantly laughing and telling stories and you couldn't help but laugh along with her regardless of what she was saying because her laugh was infectious. And the stories always had me spellbound partly due to the content and material but mostly from the delivery. Similar to what Tracey was sharing from the e-mail that Edie had sent her: "I better get my butt in gear as kitchen floor is hollering to be scrubbed and also the lawn needs mowing and it is only 1 week ago that al & Marsha were here and al mowed it but with all the rain we have had you can almost see the darned lawn growing." I think it is very ironic that we have all now turned into the story tellers about Edie where during her life, she was the one who kept the history of the family alive in the stories she would tell. I used the word buddy above because she felt that way to me and she always made a point of making me feel so welcome and included even when she was visiting our home which I was already welcome at. She did this despite whatever issues were going on between you and I at the time and I really respected her for that, now I reflect on it and it makes me feel good. I was always excited to see her when she and Don would come to stay and I always marveled at her tireless energy and work ethic. This leads into the story of your Mom and Dad and I believe you really can't talk about one without the other. They were such an inseparable pair until that was no longer up to them and it is now that they are together that helps bring us all some closure in a way that makes us feel better. Tracey's story about going to the beach and your Mom carrying all the pyramid of beach blankets, towels, coolers and chairs while Don carried his cigarettes complaining why it was taking her so long and get a move on, really typifies this relationship and a glimpse into just how great your Mom was. They always kept us all hanging with laughter with their back and forth and their way with one another, it was true love at its raw best. It has been quite a journey down memory lane, I suspect it may surprise you that I have so much to say on the subject of your Mom but in the short time I have known her and the long spaces in between when we would see her, she left this impression with me and I really do think we can all take a page or two (likely more...) out of her book on how to live our lives and how to be with one another and that family is the most important thing we have. I hope that through all the story telling this weekend will bring Edie to life once again for but a brief time so that all the family can breathe her in one last time before we say good bye that one last time... Until we meet again! Love to you and all the family, especially the grandchildren and great grandchildren, All my very best wishes, sympathies and warm regards, Sean

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Steph Murray posted a condolence

Monday, December 3, 2012

From Edie's granddaughter, and daugher to her son Ed Murray. Dear Nana: Thinking back on memories of Nana (and Papa) is no small task. Rob and I were lucky enough to live in the same town as them our entire lives, and we were lucky enough to have parents who liked going on holidays and to dinner parties and would leave Nana and Papa to "visit" us. They never babysat, only "visited". Nana was such a great grandparent to me. I don't think she ever missed a piano recital or Christmas concert, and she never missed an opportunity to clap her hands or sing along. After I was finished performing, her and Papa were always there to tell me how proud they were, and if I was lucky, take me for ice cream. When I was in elementary school, my class was performing line dancing at the Cranbrook Mall for Sam Steele Days, and Nana had promised she'd walk down and watch. She loved country music. Unfortunately there was too much "hurry, hurry Nana Murray" in her step 'cause she tripped on a raised sidewalk and broke her shoulder. Poor Nana, just trying to be there for her granddaughter. Whenever Nana and Papa would pick Rob and I up after school in the burgundy Buick it was strictly boys in the front, ladies in the back. Her shoulder never quite healed back up properly, so I would always have to help her with her seatbelt - this coming from a lady who didn't ever ask for much help, especially if it wasn't accompanied by a sarcastic dig. Nana's house was always so comfortable and cosy. It was never spotless, but it was home. There was always fresh baking, and lunch or dinner on the stove. My favourite meals were sitting in the living room with Pop watching talk shows, and Nana would bring us cheese and bacon snacks (done in the over on white bread) and milk for lunch. The jar of olives was always nearby, 'cause any time I looked away, Papa would make it snow more olives onto my plate. The very best memories I have of Nana is her singing to us before bed. By no means were these lullabies, and none of them were in tune, but she'd come sit on the edge of my bed and sing a handful of songs before sleep any time she was visiting. A few favourites included You Are My Sunshine, Daisy Daisy, Ain't Got a Barrel of Money, Long Way to Tipperary, I Belong to Glasgow, Found a Peanut, and Show Me the Way to Go Home. I was singing these in my head the other night before bed, and I can vividly hear Nana's voice leading our sing-song. I was just reading over emails that I received from Nana while I was in Australia in 2004. Most of them include a play-by-play of the most recent Kootenay Ice came (so Dad comes by it honestly), a reminder of how much she's been enjoying the articles I'd been writing for the paper, and what chores she has left for the day. One particular chore was to get her butt in gear and go down to Murray's Office Stop and photocopy my articles for those who don't have computers like Auntie Dibby, the two old maid sisters in Winnipeg, and Auntie Madge. She then goes on to say (typing in all capitals at this point) her apologies for the BIG LETTERS and the bad spelling. Apparently Dad had just got "this machine repaired" but hasn't brought her the bill yet. If she knew where he got it fixed, she'd be calling to find out where the spell check went. Every single email is signed with almost a whole line's worth of XOXOXOs and bundles of love from Papa and Nana. Trust me Nana, I always felt so much love from you. One last sing-song that seems fitting at this time. I wish I could be there to sing it for you Nana. Smile a while, we bid you sad adieu, When the clouds roll by we'll come to you, So wait and pray each night for me, Until we meet again. Oh, and if anyone can pass this message on to heaven - if you know what's good for ya, Nana only likes her drinks with a straw and no ice. Stephanie Murray November 2012

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Jim Boothman posted a condolence

Monday, December 3, 2012

Cousin Jim from England: Dear Dianne, Ed, Al, & Familes, So sorry to hear of your Mam's passing. Thank you for the Link so I could read the full Obituary, which was very moving. Also to see the Family names and photos. This is the amazing thing in this day and age that distances are no problem, and you can share your loss with me. Thank you. Love from across the Pond Yours Sincerely, Cousin Jim Boothman

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Tracey Rayson posted a condolence

Monday, December 3, 2012

From Tracy Rayson (daughter of Norman Rayson - Edie's youngest brother. Dear Ed, Al, Dianne and family, Oh gosh, I'm so sad...I know we all knew after Edie's latest health update, she was not long for this earth, but no heart can ever be prepared. I opened Dianne's email last night and read the news we all feared would come too soon. Like everyone, I'm certain Edie is with Don now, giving him that long awaited hug, and of course, yuckin' it up with Norm and Nan, embracing them with the love we all feel in our hearts. I'm sure Norm had a beer waiting with Edie's name on it. Norm would say something corny like, "Got a cold one here for ya Edie, it tastes heavenly." Wow, I have to share this moment…this is very odd, but wonderfully odd. I'm watching out my home office window right now as I type this. There is a senior couple, looks to be in their late 70s, walking towards my apartment, holding hands, eating ice cream cones. Ice cream cones? It's November! More surprising, they look a lot like Don and Edie when they were in their 70s. Same physical builds, heights, proportions, both are wearing glasses, the man's bald, etc. They continue their walk up the apartment complex driveway. Why ice cream cones? It's too cold here to be eating ice cream outdoors. How odd. I admit it; the quirky nature of this sighting is not lost on me. It's too strange not to give it some reflection. I have to believe it's a sign from Norm — they are all together now. Ice cream was Norm's favourite treat. That's a pretty strong happenstance. It makes me smile in the midst of my grief. I think that moment was presented purposely, not a coincidence at all…at least that is what I am open to believe. Hum, maybe not so odd after all. Anyways…my memory I want to share of Edie. I have so many fond memories of Edie, family reunions, family holidays, special events, etc. Surely everyone will have their own story and special place in their heart for Edie's kitchen! Always open, always good home cooking. Speedie Edie's Grill, you could always count on eating/drinking at all hours of the day/night, and of course, the menu changed as we got older. "Girls, do you want a cookie? Girls, do you want a sandwich? Girls, do you want a beer?" Everything served with love. And of course, food was often consumed under a haze of blue/grey smoke that hung over the kitchen table like a heavy curtain, especially if the family was sitting around, drinking beer, playing cards, and/or rolling cigarettes. There was always lots of laughter; always lots of smoke. I can still visualize those empty tubes on the counter and the tin of tobacco. Just as David did, and I'm sure like countless others, Nancy and me helped roll hundred's of 'em. However, of all the memories over the years, Nancy and I have a favourite that we laugh about to this day. During the summer of '76, we stayed with Auntie Edie and Uncle Don during our move from Ontario to BC, Nancy was going into grade 10, me into 8; Nan and Norm were house hunting on the Coast. One particularly hot afternoon, Edie and Don took us to the lake/beach. You would have thought we were going camping with the load we packed: cooler, chairs, blankets, towels, umbrella, magazines, "transistor radio" (it was the '70s after all)…the amount of "stuff" was endless. We got out of the car, Nanc and I were carrying our towels, maybe a bag or two, and started towards the beach a few feet in front of Edie and Don. We got further in front of them when we heard Don tell Edie to hurry up. We stopped and turned to see Uncle Don with a newspaper tucked under his arm, carrying his cigarettes. Edie looked like a pyramid! Everything was stacked atop the cooler she was carrying: the blankets, the radio, Don's towel, magazines, balancing everything we packed for our outing. The lawn chairs were tucked under her arm, towel over one shoulder, purse over her wrist. Edie was a human pack mule! Uncle Don was telling her to "get a move on" and you just know she was saying something in true Edie fashion like: "For Christ sakes, Don!" Oh my God, I thin

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Ilzeand Derek posted a condolence

Monday, December 3, 2012

Dear Dianne, I am so sorry to hear the news, but you seem at peace with what has happened, as is your mom. Her candle may have stopped burning but the glow that she cast will always be there. Ilze and Derek

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Jason and Julie posted a condolence

Monday, December 3, 2012

From Jason (son of Andy and Dianne Glass), wife Julie, grandchildren Emily and Jamie: We are all very sad to hear of Edie's passing. Our thoughts are with Dianne, Ed, Al and their families at this difficult time. Edie was quite the character, always had a smile and a story for everyone and I do remember a few phone conversations where she talked my ear off - in a good way though! Both Don and Edie attended our wedding 15 years ago and offered us some very sound advice for our lives ahead - "Never go to bed mad" is one thing that has stuck with us and when that comes from a couple married for 61 years, you listen and execute! Since the year we married until only a few years ago, Edie always sent me a Scottish calender for Christmas - being Scottish, this was always such a special and thoughtful treat and was always put to use, along with the festive tea towels that still make an appearance over the festive season in our household! It is comforting to know that Edie has left this world to join her soul mate Don and is looking down upon us with a smile and a chuckle. She was not in pain and passed peacefully. It was her time to go and her legend lives on in all those who shared in her life. Sending all our love.... Jason, Julie, Emily & Jamie xxxx

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Marg and Terry posted a condolence

Monday, December 3, 2012

Dianne and Andy I am so sad to hear of your Mom's passing. She was a great lady - so much fun to be with. Dianne - she would have been so proud of you on Saturday - facing your fears - she would also have thought you were a little crazy as well!!! You are right - even though you have some forewarning - you are never really prepared. When Terry lost his Mom he said he felt like an orphan. The loss is tremendous. You and Andy made the time you spent with your mother special. It is amazing and I am sure comforting that she never forgot you which is sometimes the case with dementia. I just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and if there is anything we can do please do not hesitate to call. Marg and Terry

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Grant and Darlene posted a condolence

Monday, December 3, 2012

The above post was meant to say from Grant and Darlene.

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Murray and Erin posted a condolence

Monday, December 3, 2012

From Grant and Darlene Rayson (Grant is the son of John and Vivian Rayson) Dar and I will miss Edie. Dar had a few visits with her on our trip down there a few years ago and and they formed a bond quickly. This was not hard to do as Edie was a likeable person as soon you met her. I will miss her cheerful voice and we are so grateful we reconnected in these last few years. We are sad and send our condolences, but we are grateful she is at peace and the end was merciful and painless. She will be with Don now and that was her wish. I will always remember her from Cranbrook days when I did get a chance to visit there. She had the greatest garden! In the North we missed a lot of the fresh garden fare such as your Mom grew. I will never forget the broccoli, it was so green and she steamed it to perfection. Could never get enough. And her chatter, her cheerful chatter that went on and on. Edie was a fountain of cheerfulness but at the same time one always knew where she stood on matters and where you fit in the picture. Dar and I send our deepest condolences to you and all the family at this time. We are hoping to make trip East next year as we have relatives out that way in several places. Dianne, it would be great to see you and have some time to talk. For now, we wish you all the best. Regards and Love Grant and Darlene.

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Murray and Erin posted a condolence

Monday, December 3, 2012

We are so very sad to hear of Edie's passing. It is a blessing that she passed quickly and without too much suffering and I know that she will be pleased to be re-united with her beloved Don. Please know that Erin and I are thinking of you all and have you in our prayers at this most difficult of times. Murray & Erin

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Ralph and Sue posted a condolence

Monday, December 3, 2012

From Ralph and Sue: Ed & Andi, Dianne & Andy and Al & Marsha, We received the news last night via email from Dianne & Andy regarding Edie's passing. Just know that our prayers are with all of you. Sue and I always smile whenever we think of Edie. When Sue was pregnant with Aimee she had started knitting a sweater. Don & Edie were down here visiting and Sue ran into trouble on the sweater. Edie had just bought a new knitting machine of some kind and offered to take the partially completed sweater and yarn home with her to finish it. Needless to say, Sue is still waiting for that sweater :-) She kidded Edie about that every time we talked to her after that. It became one of our family jokes and we still laugh about it today every time we think of your Mom. Edie was quite the "character", always laughing and cutting up, and all of us thoroughly enjoyed the times we spent together. I spoke with Mom this morning to give her the news, and also informed Dave, Donna & Maureen (who is visiting with them right now). Edie will always put a big smile on our faces whenever we think of her. Love to you all, Ralph & Sue

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Michelle Rayson posted a condolence

Monday, December 3, 2012

From Michelle Rayson (daughter of John and Vivian Rayson) Hi Dianne, Ed and Al, It makes me sad to think of Auntie Edie passing away & no longer here with us, however, I'm happy knowing she likely did not suffer much and is now with Uncle Don (where she has wanted to be since he left us). She can now join the crew up there keeping tabs on all of us & whip them into shape: Uncle Don, Clint, Mark, Auntie Pat (Keeler), and Luc. They will be thrilled to have Auntie Edie join the party - in fact, it will be her who gets it started!!! I hope she knew how much we all loved & adored her, even though time & distance separated us. She was very special to me, and provided a lot of love, support, laughter, & great memories as I was growing up.... Thanks to her, I have the following: good eyesight from eating carrots/beets/beans, the ability to "sleep fast", and a strong affinity for homemade doughnuts & french fries!!! I will always think of Auntie Edie & Uncle Don as my un-official grandparents, and it's a sad day when you lose your Grandma... Thinking of all of you this week, & I wish I could join you for her service in Cranbrook. However, I will be there in spirit, & will do some Christmas baking in her honour instead.... :) Much love, Michelle xoxo

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John and Vivian posted a condolence

Monday, December 3, 2012

From John and Vivian Rayson (John is the son John and Irene Rayson - John was Edie's oldest brother. We arrived back in Vancouver yesterday afternoon to learn of the marked change in Edie and then via Michelle's email this am learned that she had passed away. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. How do we describe "Auntie Edie" and her meaning to the rest of us. I have so many memories of Edie that it is hard to put all in words. As Michelle said, she and Don were the "unofficial grandparents" to our children but in many respects were their real grandparents. I recall telling Edie when Michelle was due that she was about to become a great aunt. Her response as one might expect: "I have always been a Great Aunt." What could more sum up the qualities of this remarkable woman that we had the privilege to know and be a part of her family. The help we received on arriving in Cranbrook and the many subsequent family gatherings that were so vital to our family: Christmas Eve at Edie's, dinner at the Raysons on Christmas Day and Boxing Day at Keelers: the Kids last stop on Halloween. So many years went by so quickly. Speedie Edie's late night grill and the ability to sleep fast [at 100 kmh not 60 mph] are only a small part of the lore of the family. Who but Edie could have put together those remarkable family reunions. We will mourn Edie's passing but remember all the good times, humour and care. We are glad that she didn't suffer and is now at rest with Don and as Michelle stated will keep all in line watching over the rest of us. Keep us posted. Love John and Vivian

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Dave Newns posted a condolence

Monday, December 3, 2012

To Nana from Dave (Newns) - grandson and son to Dianne and Andy Glass Although Nana just passed away I have missed her for years. Being the other side of the country away from her, I've always wished I could see her more often! I remember her always laughing, and being one of the funniest and sarcastic people I know! (even if at the time I didn't think so!) I remember vividly as a child always whining like all kids do, "I'm thirsty!" I'm hungry!" "I'm bored!" to which I would always get the same retort, "No you're not, you're Dave! Stop yer whinin'!" It was classic Nana! (Again, not funny for a 8 year old at the time, but hilarious to me as I got older!) I remember playing UNO! I remember getting Happy Birthday sung to me every year over the phone! I remember "attaboys" and still use them to this day! I remember thinking for years that my Nana was off "sailing" around the world with her friend on Sundays and why she never brought my Papa! Could a jigsaw puzzle really be that important to you Papa that you don't want to go sailing with Nana?! Then I found out she was garage "saling" around Cranbrook with her friend and I understood why Papa didn't go! One of my fondest memories with Nana and Papa, and would probably be frowned upon today, was the cigarette rolling sweatshop they would always have me do whenever I saw them! (Or whenever I was "bored!") I would roll hundreds for them! But I loved doing it for them and I loved spending that time with them! Gotta a few attaboys out of it too! As sad as it is that my Nana is no longer on earth making people laugh, I have no doubt she's back together with Papa making everyone else laugh! I'm glad she went peacefully and didn't suffer! As I recall all these memories with tears welling up in my eyes, I can hear her now as I say "I'm sad!" "No you're not! You're Dave! Stop yer cryin'!" Attagirl Nana! Attagirl!

B

Bob Grissom posted a condolence

Thursday, November 29, 2012

I was a guest in Edie's home during two trips to Cranbrook and even though I knew very little about hockey or curling, she treated me like one of her kids.........and baked sugar cookies for me. She definitely made me feel like a member of the family. I'm glad I got to know her and I'll really miss her. Bob Grissom / Nederland, Texas (Marsha's brother)

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judy parkin posted a condolence

Wednesday, November 28, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this sad time. I hope you find comfort in all the wonderful memories you have shared over the years. She was a very special lady indeed.

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Sue & Phil Renney posted a condolence

Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Our sincere sympathy and prayers go out to the entire family during this difficult time. She was a very special lady with an easy smile.

In loving memory of

Edith

1923 - 2012