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Payton Westgate lit a candle
Wednesday, December 9, 2020
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This one is for you mom...A little poem.
It hit me hard.
Harder than anything else, harder than a bus.
Sitting at my desk, doing my work.
BOOM!
I realized I was 15,
I was in grade 10,
And my mom has been dead for over 2/3 of my life.
I gasped, grabbed my stomach, and sobbed.
It had been so long since I had felt her big warm hugs,
Since I held her hand as we walked down the road,
Since she braided my hair,
Since I saw her,
Since I heard her voice.
It was faded, blurry, faint.
Her voice saying “your hair is like spung gold with natural highlights”
Her voice saying my name.
I can’t remember,
Her voice,
Or her.
Its gone.
The memories of her are faint
Blurry, like a picture out of focus.
My breaths becoming sharper and shorter,
Not quite able to breath fully.
I’m gasping for air.
And it hits me,
The last things I said, was said mad.
Cherish them while you can, and never let them leave when you’re mad.
Boom, like the snap of your fingers
They are gone,
And your memories will become faint,
Their voice becomes quieter.
And them,
Well they just fade.
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Payton lit a candle
Monday, December 7, 2020
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Sydney Westgate lit a candle
Tuesday, September 15, 2020
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payton lit a candle
Tuesday, June 19, 2018
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Payton lit a candle in memory of Bridget Haleigh Westgate
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Payton westgate posted a condolence
Monday, May 28, 2018
Mom,
I wrote this poem for you last year but didnt know if I should put it up here. It is sad and I know you don't like people to be sad that you died when they could be happy that you lived but I wrote this poem when I needed to be sad...so here's to you.
Blue was a colour I once liked
Blue was the colour of my eyes and hers
Blue was the colour of sparkling oceans
And flashing blue sky's
Then all of a sudden blue wasn't,
The colour of her eyes or the colour of flashing sky
Cause every day is grey, cloudy, and gloomy.
Blue is the colour of my many many tears
rolling down my face
And my eyes are the only blue eyes,
Because she is no longer here; yes she is really gone.
Today this poem is more real than another time because today I'm not the only one who will shed many many tears...Everyone who had the pleasure of knowing and or meeting my mom will also be shedding lots of tears today.
Mom I can't believe how much of brown and matured since the last time I saw you eight years ago...You now have two teenagers
I'll miss you forever and always
Love you, Payton
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Payton Westgate posted a condolence
Monday, May 28, 2018
This is the only party she did that I remember with such detail the clothes, planning, people, setting up, pictures, makeup, and hair. I do remember the 80s parties but not as much.
I miss you soo much mom and I can't believe how long it has been since I saw you last you've missed me and Sydney grow up for 8 years now.=(
Love you forever and always
Payton
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Keri posted a condolence
Monday, March 16, 2015
Thought of you today.... I cant believe it will be 5 yrs in a couple months. Miss you very much.
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RaylenenTravis Snider lit a candle
Sunday, September 21, 2014
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RaylenenTravis Snider lit a candle in memory of Bridget Haleigh Westgate
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Brenda polier posted a condolence
Saturday, September 20, 2014
Just alittle while longer Payton...xo
Nanna
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Jon Westgate posted a condolence
Tuesday, May 28, 2013
3 years...so much has changed. The girls are getting so big. One thing that hasn't changed is that you are missed and you are loved.
Jon, sydney and Payton.
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Brandi Polier posted a condolence
Tuesday, May 28, 2013
Three years and it hasn't gotten any easier to be without you. In fact, it feels harder than ever. You haunt my dreams daily and keep reminding me that you are dead. I miss you.
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Brandi Polier lit a candle
Friday, January 11, 2013
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Brandi Polier lit a candle in memory of Bridget Haleigh Westgate
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Jon Westgate lit a candle
Sunday, September 9, 2012
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Jon Westgate lit a candle in memory of Bridget Haleigh Westgate
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Sydney and Payton posted a condolence
Monday, May 28, 2012
Lonely For Mom
There was one a person who made me feel safe
held my hand when I began to fall from grace
This person was my mother she's the one I miss
she brought me love and endless happiness
On May 28 th.2010 you died leaving me all alone,
oh God how I cried
Why did you have to go please tell me why?
I wish you were here mom I miss you so much
no one even knows what I would give for just one touch
Why does everyone else get to have there moms near
do they know I'd give anything to have my mother here?
I'm sad and lost mom will you help me find my way?
will you get rid of the tears I cry each day?
I know the answer and the answer is no
Mom I love you and thank you for all you did for me
and I hope someday I make you proud for whatever comes to be
For all those that have a mother please hold her tight
For you never know when she might have to go
and the pain that it brings ..... I hope you never have to know!!
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Jon Westgate lit a candle
Monday, May 28, 2012
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I miss you mommy. Love Payton
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Keri lit a candle
Wednesday, May 23, 2012
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Can't believe its going on two years without you. Miss you like crazy... always will.... see you soon!!
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b.p. posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 11, 2012
"In the English language there are orphans and widows, but there is no word for the parents who loses a child."
? Jodi Picoult, My Sister's Keeper
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B.polier posted a condolence
Sunday, April 1, 2012
Miss you so much today, I can't breath.....
Mom
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Brenda polier posted a condolence
Friday, February 24, 2012
Payton and I were on a bike ride the other night, she stopped ,hung onto me, and sobbed her little heart out, she had a dream you woke up and made her breakfast....
She said "Nanna tell me Mommy isn't dead, please tell me she didn't die, please Nanna...." :(
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Brandi Polier posted a condolence
Thursday, February 23, 2012
The next time I see you, my sister, you will be the youngest sibling, instead of me. My mind refuses to wrap my brain around the fact that on March 13th, I will be older than you. I will have more experience at living, than you. I don't want to be the older sister. The very thought of this has been plaguing me for the 21 months that you have been gone and with my birthday looming ever closer, my heart aches, I can't breath right.
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brenda polier posted a condolence
Sunday, December 25, 2011
Sorry the site below didn't go where it was suppose to, there is no delete button...so untill I figure it out please ignore !!!
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Brenda posted a condolence
Sunday, December 25, 2011
http://www.helpguide.org/mental/helping_grieving.htm
Supporting a Grieving Person
Helping Others Through Grief, Loss, and Bereavement.
I'm posting this here because so many ask me what do I say.....
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Mom posted a condolence
Thursday, December 22, 2011
Dealing with a siblings death..
http://connect.legacy.com/inspire/page/show?id=1984035%3APage%3A2481
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Nanna posted a condolence
Saturday, November 5, 2011
Payton at the funeral home--
sitting on her Mom's legs at the bottom of the bed--Looks up to her Mom's face and says"Good-bye Mommy...."
saddest moment of my life....
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Nanna posted a condolence
Saturday, November 5, 2011
Sydney at the funeral home-- blowing on her Mom's arm-
Nanna: "What are you doing honey?"
Sydney: Trying to warm her up...."
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Mom posted a condolence
Sunday, September 18, 2011
When Tomorrow Starts Without Me...
When tomorrow starts without me,
and I'm not there to see;
If the sun should rise and find your eyes,
all filled with tears for me;
I wish so much you wouldn't cry,
the way you did today,
while thinking of the many things,
we didn't get to say.
I know how much you love me,
as much as I love you,
and each time that you think of me,
I know you'll miss me too;
and that I'd have to leave behind,
all those I dearly love.
But as I turned to walk away,
a tear fell from my eye,
for all life, I'd always thought,
I didn't want to die.
I had so much to live for,
so much yet to do,
it seemed almost impossible,
that I was leaving you.
I thought of all the yesterdays,
the good ones and the bad,
I thought of all the love we shared,
and all the fun we had.
If I could relive yesterday,
just even for awhile,
I'd say goodbye and kiss you
and maybe see you smile.
But then I fully realized,
that this could never be,
for emptiness and memories,
would take the place of me.
And when I thought of worldly things,
I might miss come tomorrow,
I thought of you, and when I did,
my heart was filled with sorrow.
But you have been so faithful,
so trusting and so true.
Though there were times you did some things,
you knew you shouldn't do.
But you have been forgiven
and now at last you're free.
So won't you take my hand
and share my life with me?
So when tomorrow starts without me,
don't think we're far apart,
for every time you think of me,
I'm right here, in your heart.
David M. Romano
I saw this poem and thought about so many of these things Bridget said...
and how everyday her girls say they want their Mom....
We all just want to hold you again...
Love Mom
I miss you more everyday that goes by....
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Jon Westgate lit a candle
Friday, September 9, 2011
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Tears, idle tears, I know not what they mean,
Tears from the depth of some divine despair
Rise in the heart, and gather to the eyes,
In looking on the happy Autumn-fields,
And thinking of the days that are no more.
Fresh as the first beam glittering on a sail,
That brings our friends up from the underworld,
Sad as the last which reddens over one
That sinks with all we love below the verge;
So sad, so fresh, the days that are no more.
Ah, sad and strange as in dark summer dawns
The earliest pipe of half-awakened birds
To dying ears, when unto dying eyes
The casement slowly grows a glimmering square;
So sad, so strange, the days that are no more.
Dear as remembered kisses after death,
And sweet as those by hopeless fancy feigned
On lips that are for others; deep as love,
Deep as first love, and wild with all regret;
O Death in Life, the days that are no more!
-Tennyson-
09/09/00 - 05/28/10
Not a day goes by...
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Brandi Polier posted a condolence
Thursday, August 11, 2011
Going back to Florida is just not going to be the same without you...
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Mommy posted a condolence
Sunday, June 5, 2011
June 21.
Bridget would have turned 29!
Brandi you will soon be older than your sister.....
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Mom posted a condolence
Saturday, May 28, 2011
In the traditional model of grief, she says, "acceptance used to be the last stage. Now, the goal is to understand it's an ongoing life process. There will be days when you are as sad as you were the day she died."
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Brandi Polier posted a condolence
Saturday, May 28, 2011
I wanted to write another poem for you, my sister. Instead someone sung a song for you. It's the only one I have been listening to today and it reminds me of you, of how I feel. It's sad, I know you wouldn't like that, but it is how I feel still, maybe even more so now that a year has passed. I love you so much. I wish you could see everything that has transpired since you left us. Maybe one day, when I see you again, I'll figure out a way to give you my memories so that you don't have to feel like you missed out on anything. That is my greatest sadness in life now, that you aren't here making memories with us. I wish more than anything that you could at least see.
2am, where do I begin
Crying off my face again
The silent sound of loneliness
Wants to follow me to bed
I'm the ghost of a girl
That I want to be most
I'm the shell of a girl
That I used to know well
Dancing slowly in an empty room
Can the lonely take the place of you
I sing myself a quiet lullaby
Let you go and let the lonely in
To take my heart again
Too afraid, to go inside
For the pain of one more loveless night
For the loneliness will stay with me
And hold me till I fall asleep
I'm the ghost of a girl
That I want to be most
I'm the shell of a girl
That I used to know well
Dancing slowly in an empty room
Can the lonely take the place of you
I sing myself a quiet lullaby
Let you go and let the lonely in
To take my heart again
Broken pieces of
A barely breathing story
Where there once was love
Now there's only me
And the lonely...
Dancing slowly in an empty room
Can the lonely take the place of you
I sing myself a quiet lullaby
Let you go and let the lonely in
To take my heart again...
(The Lonely by Christina Perri)
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Jon Westgate posted a condolence
Saturday, May 28, 2011
I have a bottle of rum from our honeymoon in Jamaica. We were going to open it on our 10th anniversary...today seems as good a day as any. It's hard to believe it's been a year already.
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Keri Michel lit a candle
Wednesday, May 11, 2011
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You can shed tears that she is gone,
or you can smile because she has lived.
You can close your eyes and pray that she'll come back,
or you can open your eyes and see all she's left.
Your heart can be empty because you can't see her,
or you can be full of the love you shared.
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday,
or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
You can remember her only that she is gone,
or you can cherish her memory and let it live on.
You can cry and close your mind,
be empty and turn your back.
Or you can do what she'd want:
smile, open your eyes, love and go on.
---David Harkins
Can't believe it's almost been a year.... still miss her like crazy. Can't wait to see that beautiful smile soon.
Love you all <3
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Brandi Polier posted a condolence
Monday, May 2, 2011
I'm starting to think that it will never stop hurting. Every moment of every day my breath comes in slow and agonized, because every breath is another I have to take with you not here.
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Brenda Polier lit a candle
Friday, March 4, 2011
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I dropped a tear in the ocean, and whenever they find it I'll stop loving you, only then."
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Jon Westgate posted a condolence
Friday, March 4, 2011
Where you used to be, there is a hole in the world, which I find myself constantly walking around in the daytime, and falling in at night.
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Jon Westgate lit a candle
Wednesday, March 2, 2011
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Jon Westgate lit a candle in memory of Bridget Haleigh Westgate
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Janna Gnyp posted a condolence
Monday, July 5, 2010
What a strong, beautiful lady. I can't remember ever seeing Bridget without a smile..and she always greeted with a hug. We are so fortunate to have been able to know her, she will always life on through her girls and wonderful memories. We can't wait to see her again... all our love <3 Jann & Kelly Gnyp
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James Strong posted a condolence
Monday, June 21, 2010
I am so sad to hear of the loss of such a great young girl. I met the Polier family a few years ago, and like her parents Bridget was a kind open hearted smiling friendly girl! I remember when she first started her pie business and how much she enjoyed it and how we all enjoyed her delicious pies!!
It was hard to not like Bridget and I know her inward and outside Beauty will be fantastic memories for all of her family until Jehovah unites them back together here on earth.
Any who had the chance to meet Bridget were fortunate.My heart goes out to all of you. I am sure her daughters will grow up to be just like her!!
James Strong
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Gilbert & Willena Ernst lit a candle
Tuesday, June 15, 2010
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Gilbert & Willena Ernst lit a candle in memory of Bridget Haleigh Westgate
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Pat Johnson posted a condolence
Thursday, June 10, 2010
We met Jon when he and the family moved to Golden. We knew Bridget since she was a baby actually although the family moved away when she was still young. Bridget's smile was so infectious and had a wide ripple effect on everyone she met. She will be missed but we so look forward to see her zipping around in the new world. Our thoughts and prayers are with the Westgate and Polier families and the congregations that shared their lives.
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kim kaz posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 9, 2010
We are so glad we knew Bridget. The first time we met she came over with 2 fresh baked pies and we became instant friends. She was so easy to love. Bridget and Jon were such good friends to us in Golden always supportive and very generous. They were always looking for ways to support us in service, it didn't matter if it was Jon coming out after work was done, or Bridget with her two girls, or better yet in the middle of a snow storm.
Bridget was always looking for ways to help. When we had company come visit our very small place, she had us stay in their travel trailer and of course had to bring us breakfast in the morning! Then she offered to take all the kids to the park so we could visit, our visitor's couldn't believe how selfless she was. That same occasion when we were in the travel trailer in the middle of the night she heard a bear outside. Worried about us, she grabbed a broom stick and repeatedly opened her screen door and hit the trailer until we woke up, so she could warn us! We will never forget those times together, she always made us smile.
Bridget was such a great friend to us. It was so easy to see that she loved Jehovah and people. She was such a good example in so many ways. We are confident she was the most positive person we have met. We are so looking forward to seeing her again. Love Jesse and Kimberly Kazakoff
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brenda polier posted a condolence
Monday, June 7, 2010
The journey we take with a loved one through terminal illness is long and difficult with many obstacles-you all made that journey easier through your generosity,support, presence and kind words.
Thanks for giving us a hand.
It will always be remembered and appreciated.
Love Poliers/ Westgates
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Elaine Johnston lit a candle
Sunday, June 6, 2010
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Elaine Johnston lit a candle in memory of Bridget Haleigh Westgate
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Elaine Johnston posted a condolence
Sunday, June 6, 2010
Our sincere sympathy to Jon and the girls, as well as to Brenda Carl and the rest of the family. We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Richard, Elaine Johnston and family
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Kendra Fraser posted a condolence
Sunday, June 6, 2010
I didn't know Bridget as well as I would have liked, but when her, John and the girls lived in Golden, I did get to know her a little, and she was so outgoing, and charming. The whole Golden congregation loved her, and they were all sad to see them move back to Cranbrook, and devastated to learn she had cancer. She had an infectious smile, and laugh, and always loved to be around people. She will be missed by so many. The new system cannot bring our dead loved ones back soon enough! After losing a daughter myself, I can definitively say that no parent should ever have to bury a child, and especially one with her whole life ahead of her still. Bridget will be missed by everyone she knew. My heart goes out to her daughters, John, and the rest of the Polier family as they suffer this unimaginable loss. My prayers are with you now, more than ever!
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Lydia Salvidge posted a condolence
Saturday, June 5, 2010
Unfortunately we only knew Bridget for a little while....but she made such an impact on us ..she was so positive about everything and you could see the deep love she had for her family and Jehovah. We attended the last party she organised and we had a blast....You will be missed and we as a family look forward to the day when we will have all the time in the world to get to know you better ...Our thoughts are with Jon and the girls and all your family at this time...love from Lydia,Paul,Jessica, Aimee and Harrison Salvidge.
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hHeidi BBrown posted a condolence
Saturday, June 5, 2010
The Poliers and Ryters have many memories as a family together. Our parents were married one week apart. We had camping and other family trips together. I remember Bridgets happy, outgoing personality, and she had a perma smile. To my dad she was "Miss Bridget." They were always teasing eachother. Her parents can be proud of how they raised Bridget to be such a loving happy person.
We had the privledge of watching Jon and Bridgets girls during her first surgery. We had fun with Sydney and Payton. I have 4 boys so to have the girls around was a treat. Poor Payton was getting tired of me always wanting to do her hair, haha. We played games, painted and looked at the animals. The kids all had fun together. Bridget appreciated it so much but it was our pleasure!
I admired how positive Bridget was and how she never let fear of man stop her from talking about her God, Jehovah. She was an amazing example for her daughters and everyone else. She loved her friends, family, daughters, husband and Jehovah. She will be missed but we look forward to seeing her again soon, love from Heidi, Terry and the boys.
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Jacqueline Lyons Rourke posted a condolence
Friday, June 4, 2010
Bridget was an amazing girl, mother, daughter and friend. I very much admired her...
Even when the worst was against her, she always had a smile and 20 different things on the go. She never gave into her illness, fought so hard. Bridget was always so positive and happy and loved life, her girls and her family. I look into those eyes right now and cannot believe she is not with her family, with us. We miss you Bridget.
I can't wait to see you healthy and happy again...until the day Jehovah raises you we will carry your memory and warm spirit with us.
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billi-jo polier posted a condolence
Friday, June 4, 2010
Thanks for posting every one this is going to be a wonderful thing for the girls to have. To hear how great their mom was.
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Shekayla Lester posted a condolence
Friday, June 4, 2010
Bridget has been like a sister to me since the day I was born. She was always in my life, from my first breath right up until her last. Some of my fondest memories as a child were my days with Bridget and the rest of the Poliers, my second family. The trips to Silverwood, scrapbooking until 4 in the morning, her and Billi-jo doing my hair and makeup when I was little...I will never forget those times.
She was the most outgoing person I knew and was never afraid to meet someone new. I always wished I could be more like her, she was definitely someone I could consider my role model. We always thought it was funny that me and Bridget are 10 years apart, and me and Sydney are 10 years apart, and that Jon and Bridget's anniversary is on the same day as my Birthday.
Her faith was so strong, never once did I see her give up her integrity, I only wish I were half as strong as she was. She loved her girls more than anything, and it was easy to see. I only wish she could have watched them grow up into the beautiful girls they are sure to become.
I love you Bridget
-Shekayla
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billi-jo polier posted a condolence
Friday, June 4, 2010
I'm not a writer and I'm not good with words but I'm going to give it a try.
Bridget and I are 4 years apart, but in many ways she felt like the older one always taking care of me. When she was 12 or 13 and sat in the front yard to sell apple pies she had made from the apples in the back yard. She sold them so fast and came in the house and said she needed more. Then before you know it, she roped me into making pies with her.
Its what brought us together. The all nighters of making pies and laughing uncontrollably about nothing. Lying in bed for hours just talking and goofing around for hours. The long drives to Banes Lake to sell Pies at the campsites. When she made pies, she was so clean and knew where everything was; me on the other hand it look like a tornado went through the kitchen it drove her crazy! But her being so clean drove me crazy to! Cooking together was not so good.
I loved planning parties with her, when she was working on one she was thinking of the next, it wears me out just thinking about it. Her best party was the last one. The ball turned out so perfect and she looked so beautiful in her gown and to see her dancing was so amazing. The hard thing will be at a party and not see Bridget Dancing. She loved to Dance. Late nights of scrap booking, and just talking, laughing. She was always trying to boss me around, making me mad, but only trying to get me to do my best. I always admired her, she could talk to any one and I always wished I could talk to people like she could.
We also have 3 beautiful girls between the two of us and we both love them with all our hearts. The three musketeers'.
I never knew how much Bridget was a part of me, until we lost her. Now I feel empty. She was always there for me when I needed her, she would do anything for me. Bridget always thinking of the positive side of things, no matter how bad things were. Always so fearless and bold and strong and loved life. The only thing I new she was scared of was that no one would love her. Bridget your loved more then you will ever know.
Sisters forever. Love you! Beeg ( Billi-jo)
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Shannon Tichenor posted a condolence
Thursday, June 3, 2010
I first met Bridget and the family as they were leaving the Kingdom Hall in 07' (pretty sure that is right). We hit it right off and realized we had girls the same age. Before leaving town, we visited Green Meadows Farm and had lunch at one of our favorite Japanese Restaurants called Osaka. Even then it felt like we had known one another all our lives - things felt comfortable and it was evident that being one of Jehovah's people created an instant bond. I received a call from Billi-Jo letting me know that Bridget had been diagnosed with cancer and that the family was planning a final trip to FL since her condition seemed grave. Bridget's condition was fragile, but she pushed herself to experience all she could and her smile and spirit were as vibrant as ever. We had great times and great laughs, but when everyone went home the good-bye didn't feel final. I began to hear rumblings of an 09' trip and sure enough, this time I surprised them at the airport and Bridget's hair had grown back in curly and brown - she looked great and all were ready to soak in the FL sun and experience more Disney than seems humanly possible. As the trip ended it again didn't feel like this would be it... I knew an 2010' trip was in the works. I can honestly say that Bridget was in the best shape I had seen on this most recent trip - her energy and outlook and stamina were amazing!!! This entire family rallied around Bridget and worked as a unit to help her be as healthy and comfortable and experience the most joy possible given the uncertainty of her condition - no one ever knew when another episode or surgery would be necessary. Each time I was with Bridget I witnessed a mother full of love for her children who tried her best during her weak moments to stay involved and connected and in control, but who was wise enough to realize she needed help. Bridget's unfailing faith and confidence in Jehovah were inspiring and should serve as a reminder to all of us to keep our eye on the prize. Bridget will be sorely missed - the world lost a wonderful mother, wife, sister, daughter and friend. All of those that have had the pleasure to know her should count themselves fortunate - she was the real deal!!! Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you now as you try to grieve and heal - her memory will not fade with time, but I pray that the pain of her loss becomes more bearable with time. Thank you to your families for letting us into your lives - you have all enriched our lives! Love you all!
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Paige Rogers posted a condolence
Thursday, June 3, 2010
Bridget always had some party or event planned. I'll never forget good times at Survivor day, the Amazing Race and even when Bridget and Billi-Jo put me in an 80's grad dress to pretend I was a princess for a kids party. I'll miss her very much and cannot wait until the day we all get to see her again.
Love, Paige R
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Brick Bell posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
The first time I met Bridget was with her sister Billi Jo. They had come to Magic Kingdom here in Disney. I work at Guest Relations/ City hall. The moment I saw her, I knew there was a "connection". I knew right from the beginning that this was a trusting and caring soul. You see, Bridget had a bandanna wrapped around her head and looked a little sickly. She asked if there was anything we could do to help her feel a little more comfortable, which we do. I assisted her with a special assistance card that allowed her to have quicker access to the lines for the rides. For some reason, we continued to talk. She told me, at that time, that she wasn't sure that there would be another chance for her to have another vacation with her daughters, and felt that this may be her last time to enjoy a family vacation. Needless to say, I started to get a little choked up. I spent time with her and her family and even gave them complimentary tickets to come back to our special "Pirates and Princess" party that night at Magic Kingdom. You see, I had to do something special for this magnificent soul. Her smile and compassion was amazing. As she left that night, we exchanged email addresses. ( Something I had never did before for anybody else)but I felt compelled to keep in contact with her. I told her to email me and let me know how she enjoyed the party,and to keep in touch. Inside myself, I was thinking that this may be a way to keep her going. After that night, we did say goodbye with tears in our eyes with a hug, again, something I had not did for any other guest. Happily, she did come back for the next year and the year after. We would keep in contact with each other thru our emails. As I am typing this, my heart is heavy knowing that we have lost one of the most amazing people that I have ever me. Bridget, thank-you for being a part of my life. Helping me to learn more about being compassionate, caring and understanding. I truly believe that God puts people in our lives for a reason, surely I was blessed to have met such an Angel like Bridget. Here's to an amazing person. Your Friend - Brick
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Tammy Pesce lit a candle
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
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Tammy Pesce lit a candle in memory of Bridget Haleigh Westgate
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Evie Michel posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
Evie Michel sent a virtual gift in memory of Bridget Haleigh Westgate
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Evie Michel posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
For once I am glad to have had to been in Calgary. The few hours I got to spend with Bridget Wednesday morning the day before her surgery are very precious to me. Our conversation was so very spiritual. She spoke of her baptism, looking forward to her girls getting baptized, service, and everything to do with Jehovah and the truth. In our converstation it was so easy to see how pure and selfless her heart was, focused on Jehovah and her family. I will remember that morning with laughter, joy and sadness, only because she promised to share her favorite bible story but now I have to wait until the Paradise...but I'm pretty sure they were all her favorites...
I am sorry she didn't get to finish planning her 10th anniversary party for this fall. She had it all figured out. But you better believe that once she wakes up, she will be planning something huge, and I know I want to be a part of it!
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Keri Michel posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
What can i say?? Bridget was a wonderful person inside and out. I don't think that I have met anyone with a purer heart. I loved her enthusiasm for life, her big heartedness, her courage, her love of Jehovah and that smile.... what a gorgeous smile :0)
I remember how her face just lit up when she talked about something that she loved, like her family, especially Jon and the girls or the truth or planning her next dance. I remember the last time we got to visit and she was talking about the balloon ride that they took and how she had always wanted to go and how happy she was to be able to go up with her family.
We will miss her but we will also look forward to seeing that smile in the Paradise. Love you lots and see you then my friend <3
"Missing someone gets easier every day because even though it's one day further from the last time you saw each other, it's one day closer to the next time you will." ~Author Unknown
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Nicole Field posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
Bridget was such a kind, wonderful woman. She always had a smile on her face, no matter what. Im glad I had the chance to meet her. She will be missed & I look forward to seeing her again in paradise :)
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Janná Giles lit a candle
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
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Brandi Polier posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 1, 2010
For My Sister
I sit and stare
I wonder where I should be
What strength is truly left in me
My heart is failing as I think
What is truly means
For you to be gone
My grief is so much less
Than others that were touched
By you
Yet it stills my heart
Makes me unable to breathe
If my pain is such a terrible thing to bear
I think of those who suffer
So much more than me
And wish that I could add that pain to me
If it would take it from them
I'm so glad to know
That though we bear this pain
You will feel none at all
In Jehovah's memory
I hope that some day soon
The comfort of knowing
That I will see you again
Will take this pain and dull it
So that I can bear until the end
And be with you in perfect paradise
Have a short sweet sleep
My sister
Until we meet again
-Brandi M. Polier
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Melanie Dickson posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 1, 2010
I feel so blessed to have had Bridget touch our lives. She truely 'lived life' to the fullest. No kinder heart, warmer smile or positive personality could there be. I will miss her ....... and can't wait to welcome her back in the new system!
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Melanie Dickson lit a candle
Tuesday, June 1, 2010
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Tammy Pesce lit a candle
Monday, May 31, 2010
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Tammy Pesce lit a candle in memory of Bridget Haleigh Westgate
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Payton westgate lit a candle
Friday, May 28, 2010
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